The Spicy Purrball
You want love, but you're also ready to bite the hand that feeds you. It's complicated.
You possess the Disorganized/Fearful-Avoidant Style!
You are the Spicy Purrball. You are the cat that rolls over to show its belly (inviting a pet), but then grabs the hand with claws when it touches you. It's not that you're mean—it's that you have big feelings! You crave connection desperately, but as soon as it gets too real, your instinct says "Run!" or "Fight!".
Your traits:
- You are hyper-vigilant to changes in tone or vibe.
- You oscillate between "Love me!" and "Don't perceive me!".
- You protect your heart fiercely.
Advice for the Spicy Purrball: Your spice is a defense mechanism. Try to recognize when you are hissing out of fear rather than actual danger. Find safe people (Velvet Burritos are great for you) who will let you approach at your own speed without chasing you.
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